In 2009, 19-year-old Ashleigh Love was
gunned down in her own home in the Milwaukee suburbs. Today, the
killer or killers remain unknown. The documentary short “Letters
To Ashleigh” is part of the effort to keep her memory alive, as
well as a rallying cry for action. It premieres Saturday, August 9,
at the Marcus Majestic at 7 p.m. The writer and director of the
film, Kyle Olson, sat down
to talk with me about it. This is the short version of our
conversation.
Andrea Thompson: Kyle, you wrote and
directed a documentary short about a local girl. And you grew up in
Milwaukee correct?
Kyle Olson: That's correct. I grew up
in South Milwaukee. Once I graduated high school, I moved from
Milwaukee to Los Angeles, and I've been working there for the last
seven years in the television and film industry.
Andrea Thompson: Always good when a
local boy makes good. So why did you decide to come back here to do
a documentary? Like the girl, Ashleigh, that the documentary is
about, she was gunned down in her home, in her own bed, correct?
Kyle Olson: That's correct. This is a
story that definitely took Milwaukee by surprise when it happened
back in 2009. Basically, an intruder broke into Ashleigh's house,
Ashleigh's family's house, and shot her point blank in the middle of
the night while she was sleeping. And as you can imagine, there was
a surplus of emotions that went with that. And one of the things
that came about after this murder had occurred was a number of people
from the Milwaukee community and then from outside of the Milwaukee
community in the states in the Midwest or around the country, started
sending letters to kind of give their condolences and give their well
wishes, and that sort of thing to Ashleigh and the family. And so
over time the family started to collect these letters to Ashleigh and
they weren't quite ready to open them yet. So a lot of them sat in
this box for a long period of time. And eventually, as time went on,
the family kind of got stronger about the idea of well, maybe in fact
we should open these letters and take an opportunity to read what
people have said throughout the years. And they did just that in the
movie, and we were lucky enough to let them do that on camera for the
very first time for us.
AT: Wow. So you caught them on the
very first time they read those letters on camera.
KO: Correct. Yeah, we went to them
beforehand and said hey, this is something we'd really like to do.
We'd really like to be able to watch you guys opening these letters
for the first time on camera. We know it's going to be emotional, we
know it's going to be a roller coaster of emotions. But we would
like to be there to show people what that whole experience is like,
all the emotions that you would expect to go with it.
AT: How exactly did you hear about
this? And how did you get involved?
KO: My best friend to this day, who has
been my best friend since middle school, is is Ashleigh's older
brother. So naturally when this tragedy happened to the Love
family, I was very much a part of hearing about (it) when this news
first broke, and obviously being their friend when this happened
during their time of grief. And we've obviously stayed close since
then, and this kind of started stewing in the background through the
years after Ashleigh's death. The family definitely wanted to get
Ashleigh's word out there, Ashleigh's legacy, Ashleigh's memory, if
you will. But of course that came (with) the idea that they didn't
want to exploit themselves or anybody else. And so they wanted to
make sure that if they did anything,that it would be done by somebody
that they trusted. And so that is where I had to say look, I know
you guys, I am familiar with you guys, I'm not going to be like every
film crew in town, but at the same time, we're going to give you an
opportunity to get the word out and to hopefully find the people that
did this to Ashleigh on top of getting the word out about her legacy.
AT: That personal touch really showed.
In a topic like this, it's really hard to avoid, being exploitative
in one way or another. This felt very non-exploitative. One thing
that I noticed is, you didn't show her through the crime scene like
practically every other media (outlet) does when a young woman is
killed. You barely address the details; you include the bare
details. So do you think that personal connection with the family
really influenced that?
KO: Yes and no in a way. I mean, to an
extent obviously of course we wanted to look out for the family, but
at the same time, transparency is important. We want to present the
facts the way that they are to be presented. It is a documentary.
Some of the time documentaries lean one way or the other way. The
whole goal here was to make sure that we were as transparent as
possible in showing any and all sides that were available to show.
In this case, there were many sides to show because the killer has
not been caught, has not been brought to justice, etc.
AT: There was no motive.
KO: No motive. Well, I mean, at this
point there has been nothing. So I mean, I'm sure one day, whether
it would be in the near future or the far, far away future something
will come about this, and hopefully they will find the person and
bring them to justice, or persons. But for now, I mean, this was a
movie about Ashleigh's life, not about her death. So many movies
that are done about these types of topics, go the other way. Like
you were saying, they go the crime scene route. They go the tragic
murder route. They push that angle. Because it's the angle gets us
more angry. It's the angle that gets a more visceral reaction out of
us. When you watch the news, we're not hearing about all these
lovely things happening in the community. We're hearing about all
the tragic things happening in the community. And there's a reason
for that. But in this particular documentary, we said no, we can
have the same kind of reaction, but by giving a different kind of
storyline. We completely
180'ed what would be the
normal route for a storyline in this type of situation and said we're
still going to get the feeling, we're still going to get the emotion,
we're still going to get the storyline, but without getting into the
grim details because it's unnecessary. Everybody knows she was
murdered. That's all they need to know. You know, there's nothing
more that we have to say.
AT: Yeah, it really helped that they
had all that personal footage That really hit home that this was a
celebration of life, not an exploitation of her death.
KO: Right, exactly. I mean, having all
that home video was essential. Being able to put together Ashleigh's
life story and to make it feel as if Ashleigh was in fact alive
again. We are lucky enough to be able to have seen a lot of great
talents come together, to be able to put this together in a way that
does bring across her incredible life story and afterlife story as
well.
AT: Again,
I keep on seeing the personal touch that can't really be
overstated. I noticed the doc also refuses to go
exploitative in the other way, making it maudlin. You
didn't pretend that the people affected by Ashleigh's death would
ever be fully okay with it, or ever fully heal, but it was also
strangely hopeful. How do you balance that fine line as a filmmaker?
KO: There is a fine line, and it is a
tragic story, it is an upsetting story. It is a story that draws a
lot of emotion out of somebody. When we did the test screenings for
this, we had a lot of people say, “I am emotionally drained after
watching this movie.” And it is because the subject matter is
intense. It is heavy. It is expected that that is what is going to
be the case. But at the same time, you know, what is the point of
making a movie? Is it to make somebody just feel sad or angry? Or
is it to actually push a message out there as well? And the film's
idea is in my opinion, if you're a good filmmaker, you're a good
storyteller. And there is a story beyond just, here is a story about
a girl who was murdered, you should all feel sad. A movie can do
that, but what's the point? You know, in our film, we not only make
you feel sad, but we make you feel excited, we make you feel happy,
we make you laugh, we make you cry, we do balance all of that. But
here's another story. You know, Ashleigh may be dead, but a lot of
other people are still alive. And this is how they're dealing with
it. And the family especially, and of course the friends and all
those people as well, but the family, the mother especially, are the
ones we are following throughout this journey. We are following her
character. We're following her storyline and how she has the will
and the courage and the strength to get out of bed in the morning and
be able to live each day to the fullest and to find the people that
did this to Ashleigh. But at the same time, there ares a lot of
other pieces that really bring this together,
AT: If there is anything positive that
came out of this, it's that so many people got so emotionally
invested in her death and wanted to do something about it. Do you
think this would happen in another city, or do you think perhaps it's
the nature of Milwaukee, our location? (That) It's big enough for
something really tragic like this to happen in a way, but it's small
enough that people will still be shocked by it. Do you think if this
had happened in a bigger city, that there would be this much support?
KO: You know, hard to say. I mean,
there are certain advantages to being in a small town. Not only from
the support angle, as far as what you were talking about, for the
family, for the friends, for a tragedy like this to get that support
afterwards. But honestly, there is the idea that from our
perspective of releasing the film, the support, the publicity, that
kind of thing, that we are receiving, it is own battle as
well. If you are in LA, you are competing against every major
feature film movie on the market. Here, you have a little bit of an
advantage playing a slightly bigger fish in a slightly smaller pond.
You know, obviously, that's not the goal, but at the same time, it
does help that we're not up against “The Avengers” or “The
Ninja Turtles.” We can make a list of pros and cons or both to be
honest. But I think that the way that it happened in Milwaukee is
something that does attribute to the Milwaukee atmosphere, the
Milwaukee scene, and the citizens of Milwaukee.
AT: Another striking thing about the
documentary is so many strangers who didn't know her have been
affected. You mention a songwriter in Austin who wrote a song about
her. And I do believe there's an organization that sprung up from
this event?
KO: Yeah. I mean, there's a number of
things that are being done in honor of Ashleigh's death to keep her
memory and her legacy alive. And that's half of what this story is
about. Not only what have people done, but what can we as audience
members do? What can I do besides just walk away from this movie
with my bucket of popcorn feeling sad. So we give the audience
suggestions. Here are some things that people have done. Now what
can we go out and do?
AT: It's how the documentary ends.
It's also a call to action. What will you do?
KO: Yeah exactly. And our call to
action in the film has had a lot of interesting reactions, and I
think it's for the better. Because without it again, you just walk
out of the theater feeling sad and feeling angry because this hasn't
been solved. But by putting in the what will you do, it spins
everything in a completely new direction. And that's the goal. It's
again, not to emphasize her death, it's to emphasize her life. So
that was important to us, to make that decision.
AT: So do you think that's what you
want to really come out of the documentary, like for people to see it
and do something?
KO: Absolutely. This is not just a
movie, this is a movement. And we said that from day one. We want
to make sure to push the agenda as far as we can to not only get
Ashleigh's face out, but to stop this from happening to other people.
In the last month or so, here in the city of Milwaukee, there has
been a complete outrage of senseless, violent acts in the community.
More so than they have seen in years in Milwaukee. And people are
wondering why. People are wondering how we can fix it, how we can
stop it. Elected officials are finally coming to the table and
saying we need to do something about this. So this is an interesting
time to be having a conversation. And we are kind of coming in at
the right time for that conversation. To use Ashleigh as a vehicle.
It's not just Ashleigh's story, it's our story. It's anybody who's
been affected by this type of tragedy. Unfortunately, in the
Milwaukee area alone, there's been a lot. And getting that message
out there is extremely important to us.